Sunday, December 9, 2007

A day in Agra






We set out for Agra today, and like the tourists that we are, our destinations were the Taj Mahal and the Agra Fort. Johan once again defied natural laws to squeeze through tight traffic.

We learned that the Indian term for high-beam headlights is "dippers," and they're used (in conjunction with much horn-beeping) to indicate that someone needs to get out of your way so you can pass, weave, dart, or otherwise snake your way around them. "Use horn" and "use dippers at night" was painted on the bumper of almost every truck we saw.

After the noise and excitement of the ride, the Taj was an oasis of peace. It was more beautiful than we could've imagined. The shimmering white facade grew more detailed the closer we came, until we could see the inlaid jade and carnelian floral designs (which looked merely black from further away), and many other semi-precious stones. Shah Jahan must have loved his wife Mumtaz very much (if you can overlook the other 4,999 he kept over at the fort!).

The outlying buildings were fascinating too. To our left was a mosque, to the right a guesthouse. There was a little museum about how the Taj was built, including ivory portraits of the Shah and his bride.

The sheer scale of the Agra Fort was staggering. It was truly a fortress, housing multiple castles, courtyards, and facilities all surrounded by thick red sandstone walls. It was interesting to see portions of the fort built during different eras, and compare the styles and materials.

On an atmospheric note, our time in both Agra and Delhi has been filled with the scent of wood fires. December and January are the coldest months here, so people on the roadsides, in the country, and in the cities keep warm by huddling around fires -- we even smelled wood smoke on the ground floor of the airport when we arrived.

Another bit of Indian life: Johan told us that November, December and January are the busiest months for weddings in India. This month, in Delhi alone, there were 20,000 marriages performed in a single day! The cool weather allows for food safety for the wedding feasts, which often take place on four separate days.

One difficult thing to deal with has been people asking for money or food outside the tourist sites. I know all the guide books say not to give anything, but I couldn't help it, and gave my bottle of water and granola bar to a girl and a mother with a baby. I am a soft touch, and not cut out for saying no constantly.

The other reality we have seen is people living just a few feet from the roadside, in ramshackle huts built of whatever is available. In the city, that means aluminum, cardboard and plywood; in the country, that means thatch roofs and wooden or bamboo walls. Some dwellings have a lightbulb or a TV, while others provide fewer comforts. Most have only one or two walls, and are open to the street.

We saw so many homes like these as we drove. God knows each person who lives in them, He knows their stories, and He loves them all dearly. It is humbling to think of all that we have, when so many have so little. It leaves us wondering about Anya Rashi's birth parents and their circumstances. They must have cared greatly about her future to have placed her at a baby home where they knew she would receive such loving care.

On a much lighter note -- Aaron and Nathan: we saw lots of monkeys today! They were scavenging for food. We also saw two pigs, countless goats being herded beside the busy roads, and more camels. You'll be happy to know that the Taj Mahal was as amazing as it sounds on your India story tapes, and we were thinking of you the whole time.

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Exploring Delhi





After a few hours' sleep, we set out to see a little of Delhi. We discovered that our driver Baldras was the older brother of Johan, who picked us up at the airport last night.

Our first destination was the India Gate, a stone arch built in honor of the 90,000 Indians who died in WWI and two other military actions of the same time period. There were many school groups there, and lots of local businessmen (and boys and girls) trying to convince us to buy their wares. Aaron and Nathan -- you'll be happy to know that we saw a snake charmer playing his flute to make a cobra rise from its basket!

We drove by the President's residence and Parliament on our way to the National Museum. It was an enormous facility -- far too much for us to see in the time we had (especially for an ex-museum employee like Nancy!). We saw metal and stone sculptures from as far back as the 5th century, which made us all think about how young our own country's history is. We also saw artworks that resembled illuminated manuscripts depicting Hindu and Buddhist scenes.

Many places we went had beautiful arrangements of real flowers and petals decorating the floors, stairways, and entrances. They were arranged in elaborate patterns and were glorious.

Next, we spent some time at Qutb Minar, which is the site of the country's first Islamic site. It is Delhi's oldest monument (dating from the 1190s), and was built using stones from earlier Hindu and Jain temples. The intricate tower is the most striking feature, along with beautifully carved stones. There are 379 steps inside the tower, but the public can't climb them anymore following a few fatal accidents. Yikes.

We ended our tour at the Bahai temple, which was definitely the most recent architecture we saw today. It was built in 1986, and looks like a lotus flower opening. It was surrounded by petal-shaped pools of water. We had to remove our shoes to enter, and total silence is observed inside -- except for the chirping of birds that flew in and couldn't find their way out. It reminded us of the opera house in Sydney, Australia (but we don't know if it was created by the same designer).

Another lasting impression from today was being totally flabbergasted by the traffic. We saw busses, cars, autorickshaws, horse-drawn carts, as well as handcarts and bicyclists carrying enormous loads -- all accompanied by lots of horn-beeping and completely non-existent multiple lanes! It was dizzying, and we were so grateful for Baldras' driving skills. If we had tried to do it ourselves, I'm sure there would've been some kind of international incident!

During our rides, we also saw lots of urban wildlife: camels loaded with goods, an elephant being led down the road, a yak resting calmly on the median, and a group of cows going the wrong way down the street. Everyone made room for them, of course.

All in all, a fascinating first day. Just few more days until we meet the star of this show!

Friday, December 7, 2007

We're here!

Hi everyone! It is 4 in the morning and we have finally arrived here at the hotel in Delhi. Nancy and her sister are sleeping and she is way better at posting the blogs than I am, but for now we wanted to let you all know that we have arrived safely with very few travel bumps in the road.
(Actually, everything flowed smoothly until an hour long wait on the runway as we landed in Delhi, along with a drunk person who had to be escorted off the plane by the police!)

We want to say hi to our sons, Aaron and Nathan! We love you boys and we miss you. We know you are following this so know that Mom, Dad and Aunt Alicia are thinking of you.

More details and maybe even some pictures to come. We will read your replies and comments after we get a little sleep.

God is and has already been so good to us to provide us safe travel and the generous hospitality of the Indian people we hae met so far.

We will update soon....

Peter and Nancy

Thursday, December 6, 2007

We're on our way!




It was 3 degrees below zero when we dropped the boys off at school this morning. Yipes. We can't wait for the 70-degree weather awaiting us in Delhi! Poor Anya won't know what's happened to her nice, warm world when she gets off the plane in Chicago.

Aaron and Nathan are so excited that we're going to get their baby sister -- they haven't even mentioned missing us at all. :o) It helps us to know that they're going to be having a ball with their grandparents while we're away. (Okay, it really helps Nancy, who cried after they walked into their school!)

We had a great drive down, first with Peter's dad, and the next leg of the trip with Alicia's friend Lucia. We feel so blessed by the way so many people are helping us along our way.

Right now, we are an hour away from take-off. First stop will be London, next stop Delhi!

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Travel plans

Our travel plans are complete! We, along with Nancy's sister Alicia, will travel December 6-16.

Months ago (maybe even years ago!), we asked Alicia if she'd consider coming along. She was in the delivery room with us when our boys were born -- and we wanted her to be with us when our daughter came into our family. She didn't even hesitate! She said yes right away, and can now add India to her list of international travels.

Her list, by the way, is pretty amazing: she climbed Kilimanjaro last year, and climbed to base camp of Mt. Everest two years before that. Between those two treks, Alicia traveled to Taiwan with the U.S. women's amateur boxers as the team's doctor. (She will not be happy that I'm bragging her up, but I'm very proud of her, if you couldn't tell!)

So, in less than two weeks, we will all be India-bound!

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Giving thanks . . .


We are especially grateful this Thanksgiving, because we just found out Anya Rashi's passport is ready!
We were up late last night (and I mean really late) when we heard the news, and then we couldn't sleep until 3:00 a.m. because we were too excited! We hope to leave in about two weeks, pending flight availability and lots of other details.
Right now, we're in a state of joy and disbelief that this long journey has almost reached completion. We told Aaron and Nathan about the passport right away this morning, and they are so excited to meet you!
We can't wait until the moment we hold you for the first time. Our hearts are full to the brim at the thought of your birthparents. Thanks to them, we will have the privilege of raising and loving you. Hold on, Anya Rashi -- your mama and daddy are coming soon!

Monday, November 12, 2007

Just a little longer . . .

Today we heard that Anya Rashi's passport may be ready during the last week of November. Last Friday was Diwala, and earlier in the week there was a strike in Kolkata (a fairly common occurrence), so many offices were closed -- so no passport action.

Meahwhile, we are also waiting for a form from Citizenship and Immigration, and for something called ICPC, which is an inter-state adoption permission (our adoption agency is located in Oklahoma). So, the wait goes on . . . but we still have high hopes to travel in early December. Our dream and prayer is to have Anya Rashi in our arms for her birthday on December 16.